Take A Dry Shower
January 11, 2023
Frozen Hot Chocolate.
You have to love some oxymorons. Be smart, take dry showers.
Q? What is a dry shower, or steps taken in dry showering?
Step 1 – Get in the shower and rinse off. Get wet.
Step 2 – Turn off the water.
Step 3 – Soap up
Step 4 – Stand straight up, arms raised towards the ceiling fingers and toes spread open.
Step 5 – Count to one minute (1 to 60 one thousand)
Step 6 – Rinse off
Q? Why take dry showers?
A: Micelles.
Micelles are the chemical compounds that soap form to grab and remove dirt. It takes micelles time to do that. By applying soap at the same time, you are rinsing it off you are decreasing the effectiveness of the soap you are using. And if you are showering to get clean, to get rid of the accumulated dirt on your body, then take a dry shower and give the micelles the chance to do their work.
Wishes for a great day to all,
Hugs too,
David/
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